Signs are there: Battalion is going home
FRIEDBERG, Germany — The signs started to appear around Ray Barracks at 12:01 a.m. Thursday. Old sheets, canvas banners, plastic cups jammed into the chain-link fencing to form words, all bearing the same message: “Welcome home.”
Like yellow ribbons and ticker tape parades, the signs are now part of the tradition of war, showing that the countdown to homecoming has begun.
“That’s always a big deal,” said Maj. Tony Perry, the rear detachment commander for the 1st Brigade Combat Team, 1st Armored Division.
The signs, which spouses had to wait until Thursday to post, are just a small part of the brigade’s homecoming preparations.
Troops are expected to return home by late February or early March.
For more than a year, this post, headquarters of the brigade, has been relatively quiet. Buildings have been empty while their former residents have been at war, and parking at the post’s shopping center has been plentiful.
But now the post is waking up from its slumber.
Empty barracks are undergoing a renovation of sorts as soldiers and family members team up to clean, paint and decorate the rooms for their battle-weary occupants. A dining facility that had been closed is reopening and will serve its first meal this week. Personal belongings that were locked in storage are seeing the light of day.
It all points to the fact that the brigade’s second tour is winding down.
“It’s a good feeling,” said Staff Sgt. Beatrice Robertson, the administrative supervisor for the brigade’s 501st Forward Support Battalion’s rear detachment.
Staff Sgt. Jeffrey Robertson, the family readiness leader for the battalion’s Company B, has overseen the cleaning of his company’s 92 barracks rooms. The feat was accomplished in three days, but “I never would have made it without the spouses,” he said Friday.
In terms of what needs to be done, 92 rooms is a proverbial drop in the bucket. About half the brigade’s roughly 3,500 soldiers are single troops who live in the barracks, said Sgt. 1st Class Larry Perrine, the brigade’s rear detachment sergeant major. It doesn’t matter how many long days and weekends have to be worked until the troops come home, “we just have to be ready to receive them,” he said.
The soldiers will find in their rooms items they’d left behind or shipped back from Iraq. Their beds will be made and toiletries, snacks and other items will be waiting for them.
The rooms also will be furnished with information including phone numbers for local restaurants, car rentals, taxi services, and, because the transition from war isn’t as easy as just leaving the war zone, combat stress teams.
Kelly Jensen, an Army spouse, was among those who pitched in to help spruce up scores of single soldiers’ barracks rooms Friday.
“After all this is done, then we’ll have to go home and do this for our own houses,” she said. “But it’s a little easier when there’s only one, and they’re coming back to you.”
Families preparing for return of soldiers
Shanon Rudd, an Army spouse, doesn’t know if there’s one specific thing she can do to get ready for her husband’s return.
She’s tried to get all of his favorite foods and drinks and made sure the house is ready. But most important, she said, is letting him know she supports him 100 percent, “Because when he feels better, I feel better.”
Preparing spouses and families for the return of war-weary soldiers, however, isn’t nearly so simple a task as preparing favorite meals and making sure everything is tidy.
“Reunion sometimes is very stressful,” said Katherine Monge, mobilization and deployment specialist in Giessen, Germany. Monge teaches spouses and soldiers how to prepare for and cope with deployment and reunion. Since September, more than 400 spouses have attended the deployment-related courses she teaches.
She is an Army spouse herself, and in her six years as part of the 1st Brigade Combat Team, 1st Armored Division community, she’s gone through many of the same pains other Army spouses have endured — or are about to endure.
“The first (deployment) was a bit of a challenge because I didn’t know what to expect, and certainly I had a lot of expectations,” said Monge. This time, though, will be different. She’s prepared to accept whatever changes may have occurred during the separation.
But the key to a successful reunion, she said, is successful communication.
“A whole year has passed by, perhaps more than that, and things are not going to come back to normal in one day,” she said.
It’s also important for families to realize that they can’t retrieve the time they were separated, she said. That means families can’t start back from where they left off before deployment — they have to start from where they find themselves when it’s over.
— Matt Millham