More than letters cut in stone
May 26, 2003
STEEPLE MORDEN, England — An American flag covered 99 names added to the monument honoring the 355th Fighter Group.
When the the flag was pulled away during a memorial service Saturday morning, Theresa Angileri couldn’t look.
She just couldn’t.
The names were those of men who served at the airfield in Steeple Morden during World War II, but never returned. One of them — Lt. M.E. Graczyk — was her brother.
“He loved flying,” Angileri said, wiping away tears. “Flying was his life.”
Graczyk, whose first name was Michael, died at 19 in August 1944. On his way back from a mission in his P-51 Mustang, he was told to strafe a German troop train. He was missing in action for one year, before being declared killed in action.
The names were unveiled along with those of more than 140 British, Canadian and New Zealand airmen who also died while serving at Steeple Morden. The ceremony was attended by more than 200 people, including several British dignitaries and many local townspeople and their children.
For several in attendance, the names — chiseled on a monument at the farm field where the base once stood — are more than letters cut in stone. They look at the names and they see faces: friends and comrades in arms, husbands and fathers.
Or, as in Angileri’s case, a brother.
She described Graczyk as very protective of her. If she said anything remotely off-color, she said, he would reprimand her.
He was a smart kid and charming, president of his high school graduating class. But he could be mischievious, too, and would charm his way out of trouble.
“When I got into high school, it was ‘Oh, are you Michael’s sister?’” recalled Angileri, 74, from Elmwood, Ill.
Once on a family outing, the two saw a man offering rides in a biplane for $5. Graczyk bought one and was hooked. He later enlisted so he could learn to fly.
“He walked around like this,” Angileri said, rubbing her knuckles on her shoulder, “shining his wings.”
Another name on the wall belongs to Capt. Howard Lambert. Glenn Severy was the crew chief for Lambert’s aircraft.
“He was a rich kid, a wealthy guy from back East,” recalled Severy, 81, of near San Francisco. “He had a nickname — ‘Bud.’ He told me to call him Bud, but Army training says he was ‘sir.’”
Lambert had confidence in Severy. He knew his Mustang would be in top condition. Severy appreciated that show of respect from an officer.
“He went down in the Channel. I wouldn’t believe it. I had just shaken his hand and said, ‘Have a nice flight, sir,’” Severy said as he wiped his eyes. “I still tear up when I think of it.”
Severy waited and waited for Lambert to return. Night fell, and he gathered lights and flares to help Lambert when he landed. He couldn’t believe the pilot would not be coming back. But he never did.
In Severy’s home in California, a model of a P-51 Mustang hangs in the TV room. It is painted like Lambert’s — a show of respect returned.
Others attending the Saturday service had similar feelings when discussing pilots whose names are now on the monument.
“The second one down was my pilot,” Julius Moseley said, referring to the list of names.
Moseley, 84, of Dotham, Ala., described Lt. C.R. Barger as thoughtful and always appreciative of the effort the crews put into his airplane.
Losing a pilot, he said, was “like losing one of the family.” That’s why they worked so hard to make sure the airplane was in good order before it took off.
“One thing you did, you were damn sure there wasn’t anything you could have done better to make sure it came back,” he said. “If it didn’t come back, it was enemy fire, not a mechanical problem.”
After Barger’s death, Moseley was told the pilot had willed to him his uniform wings, which he had left behind. He is now trying to find Barger’s family members so he can give them the wings.
“I lost four pilots,” said Robert Coleman, 80, a former crew chief from Long Island, N.Y.
The first was Capt. C.E. Eckstrom, a man who was “just one of the boys,” in Coleman’s eyes.
Coleman couldn’t remember the names of the other pilots.
“You remember the first one,” he said. After that, he said, he didn’t get familiar with the pilots. It was more business-like between him and them.
It was sad when they didn’t come back, but his heartbreak was less.
Don Galer, a P-51 pilot who flew 45 missions, had his own way of dealing with the death of friends. On the monument, he said, were the names of two men from his squadron — Lt. C.E. Donaldson and Lt. J.J. Donovan — but he didn’t know anything about them other than they flew in his squadron and died doing it.
“Didn’t get close to anybody, I didn’t,” said the 80-year old retired architect from Bay Village, Ohio. “You didn’t have the same buddies very long.”
When men died, as was inevitable in war, Galer simply went on about his business.
“I may be different, but I just got on with the next mission,” he said.
During the service, the Prayer of Remembrance was read. It includes these words: “They shall not grow old as we that are left grow old.”
At a reception after the ceremony in a hut that was once a base ready room, food and drinks were served. Photos from the 355th’s time at Steeple Morden were displayed along one wall, and old men pointed at them and remembered those times, when they were young and there were no names on a memorial.
Most said they will not return to Steeple Morden. They are too old. The distance is too great.
But the names will remain, silently telling the story of the airfield and the sacrifice made long ago by men so young.
With the party in full swing, Angileri slipped away.
She walked alone 100 yards back to the monument, where she stood motionless and stared at the names, one in particular.