Couple gets a lot out of volunteering
May 23, 2007
UK weekly edition, Wednesday, May 23, 2007
RAF LAKENHEATH — It all started with a scheduling conflict between their children’s soccer games and Catholic Mass at a local church on Sundays.
So, Brendan and Margaret Fulham decided to attend the Saturday service at the RAF Lakenheath chapel. For the next 28 years, they would end up volunteering much of their time in support of the chapel. As a result, the U.S. Military Catholic Archdiocese bestowed an honorary religious medallion, one of two given each year, to the British couple earlier this month.
“We like to be involved. The more you put in, the more you get out,” Margaret Fulham said.
The couple has performed a variety of tasks for the chapel’s Catholic parish over the years, including ushering, teaching religious education, running a singles group and welcoming new members. They also spend a lot of time at the Gatehouse, a charitable organization in Bury St. Edmunds that collects donated food, furniture and clothing.
“We’re both really into exploring our faith. We’ve met a lot of friends here,” Margaret said.
The Fulhams’ countless hours at the chapel have spurred many long-lasting friendships and even invitations to an upcoming wedding and a retirement party in the States.
“Our social life revolves around it,” she said about the parish.
Brendan Fulham finds that his donated time to the chapel is a way to reciprocate what he received from American servicemembers as a child.
His mother, who once worked at the base, was single with three children when she received clothing, chewing gum, candy bars and popcorn from the Americans for her kids.
“What my wife and I do is a return for the good life that was given to me when the Americans first arrived here,” he said.
In the near future, the couple will become coordinators of the parish, which sees an estimated 400 worshippers during weekend services, said 48th Fighter Wing Chaplain (Lt. Col.) Stephen Blair.
“It’s a key position,” Blair said.
Even though they’ll be getting paid for their new positions, the Fulhams said they won’t stop volunteering.
“We’ll continue to do what we’ve been doing,” Brendan said.