Maria, please tell us about your job at the Kadena Chapel.

Sure. I help run two groups for youth. The middle school program is called “The Edge” and we have another group for our ninth- through 12th-graders called “Life Teen.” We have weekly meetings where we get together and talk about Catholic doctrine and issues in kids lives.

When do kids make the decision to stay with their faith or search elsewhere?

All the research at the Vatican states that this decision is made at the middle-school age. That’s one reason why our programs are heavily geared to these peer groups. Instead of just letting the kids go to church that is steeped in many old traditions, we explain their significance to give our students a better appreciation for what Catholicism is.

Do kids on base face the same challenges as the “average” teenager?

I don’t want to undermine the experiences or realities that some on-base kids face, but those who live and go to school on base are probably not as readily exposed to drugs and alcohol or other social issues than say the average teen. That does not mean these problems don’t exist, it just means that they may not be as prevalent.

So would it be safe to say that kids who are put on base live sheltered lives?

Well, I was brought up in New York City and I didn’t have a childhood. But in reality, because of all the traveling military families do, children have a better understanding of the world and how different cultures interact. This is a big advantage.

You’re also a Girl Scout troop leader for your daughter. What value do Girl Scouts have for young ladies?

I believe that it not only teaches them Christian values that are important to my husband and I, but I realize that scouting is very empowering for young women. I was never a Girl Scout, but I want the girls in my troop to attain the confidence that builds strong leaders.

You said you make your own hours as a youth coordinator. What do those hours revolve around?

I do keep office hours and my programs run at specific nights and time, but I am very blessed to have the ability to be home for my kids when needed.

Oh, so you are a “soccer mom?”

Not if what you mean is that I live my dreams through my kids. I don’t do that. I just try to give them opportunities to find things they want to do and if they like it I try to support them. But I also believe it’s important for kids to have “down time.”

What do you mean?

What I mean is that kids need to be kids, and in today’s fast-paced world many children don’t have that. As my kids say, they just need time to “chillax.”

Do you think the negative stereotypes of the stay-at-home mom are still prevalent?

Not as bad as it was during the late ’70s, that’s for sure. In fact, I think there is more of equilibrium today and for good reason. Being a stay-at-home mom is one of the toughest jobs there is.

How have you enjoyed Okinawa, Maria?

My family has loved it, but I am a New Yorker and a bit of a city snob, so it’s a little too hot and a little small for me. I think Tokyo would be my ideal location.

Maria Longeran

Age: 37

Location:Kadena AFB, OkinawaClaim to fame:Kadena Catholic Chapel youth coordinator

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