Hot tip: Friendly service doesn’t come for free

The service industry may seem obsessed with fulfilling your every whim, but at the end of the vacation week, it’s all about that bottom line.

Change is inevitable, but so is resistance

I can’t help but be alarmed at how drastically life has changed in the past 40 years, thanks to the veritable tidal wave of technology that has swept over the world since 1983.I find it frightening that something we can’t even see has so rapidly changed life as we know it, forever.

My sailor won’t batten down the hatches

I assumed that all military men were “manly” types who tinkered with cars, hooked up stereos, and fixed stuff around the house. Shiver me timbers, was I off course!

When three’s a crowd, someone gets hurt

A three-person friendship group can be difficult to maintain without someone becoming the third wheel.

The pitfalls of comparing cousins

Sometimes when you examine similarities and differences of extended family members, you find that it’s all relative.

Silence is golden when it comes to inner critic

Sometimes it’s better if we don’t hear that small internal voice that we’ve lived with for so long.

Is military service still respected?

My pride in my family’s service and sacrifices for our country has never wavered. But I worry that I’ve lost my perspective on the true value of military service.

Military medicine changes affect force’s past and future

I’ve relied on military-provided medicine for three decades, but something seems fundamentally changed. Even with Tricare updates, Genesis systems and newfangled machines, military health care has become exponentially more frustrating and unresponsive.

Mothering doesn’t end with an empty nest

When a mom gets a call from her ailing child in need, nothing else matters.

Fishing for a piece of the action

My opportunity for a grand chartered fishing adventure never came in my adolescent years. As a self-sufficient military spouse in my 50s, I decided to create my own trip.

Lessons learned while doing another PCS purge

Paring down your family’s belongings is an important part of the moving process, as long as you don’t get too carried away.

It’s finally time to tell my inner runaway to stay put

At about 6 years old, I decided I was running away. For real this time. It’s an impulse that’s never fully gone away -- until now.

Surgically removing oneself from spousal care

If your husband has impending surgery, beware. Whether you like it or not, you’re on the hook to be his post-operative caregiver. Your spouse needs you to make good on that “sickness and health” clause. Ready or not, you’re it.

‘Resilient, but human’: Military teen speaks out

What do military teens REALLY think about their lifestyle? One shares the struggles and lessons that come from a childhood marked by frequent disruption.

Pain in the neck: Reflections on my husband’s driving

I should have seen the signs exhibited while riding down the highway with my father-in-law -- a portent of what my married experience would be.

Reading the rings of the tree of military life

If humans grew inner rings each year like trees do, I imagine that the trunk of a military spouse would tell quite a story.

Happy military wife, happy military life

How can the military improve retention and readiness? How about focusing on supporting the modern military family unit.

No way to know what to expect when you’re expecting

I won’t inflict upon you the tedious and at times gruesome details of my labor with my first child. But I will share a few of my most embarrassing moments leading up to this painful but glorious event.

Death of a saleswoman: Facing post-grad job realities

College degrees aren’t useless, but pie-in-the-sky expectations for the next step can be problematic.